You have finally talked yourself into trying senior dating sites to see what the fuss is over them. Now, that you have taken that important first step, you need some tips on using senior dating websites to assist you so you get the most worth out of it. These guidelines will prevent you from wasting time on your new journey.
If there is one
thing true about senior dating sites, it is you can’t make decisions based on
profiles alone. A tiny photo and two or three sentences won’t tell you the
whole story of a person.This causes you to create your vision of the person,
which could disappoint you when you meet them. Communicate with the person
until you get a feel for how they are, and don’t get your hopes up until you
come face to face with them.
Don’t Allow Email
to Take Control
If you are looking
for a serious relationship, the last thing you want is a potential date to turn
into an email penpal. It is good to begin with email communication, but limit
to five to ten emails. If both of you want to advance the relationship, move to
chatting, instant messaging, or phone calls to help you learn more about the
person in a meaningful way.
Talk to Them on
thing to keep in mind when using senior dating sites is to speak to them by
phone prior to meeting them in person. Instant messages and emails are okay,
but you don’t learn all you need to know about a person that way. Hearing a
person talk cues you in on qualities you find negative. You gain insight on the
person spontaneously to determine if you want to proceed with the relationship.
Don’t keep talking on the phone for months if you have an interest in
continuing a relationship.
Avoid Long First
For some people,
being bound to someone you don’t know in person for an hour can be daunting,
especially if you have no interest in them. A good way to prevent this is to
meet somewhere for a few minutes for a drink or coffee. It’ll give you an
adequate first impression in a few minutes to decide if you want to continue
merrier. Who would argue against it — threesomes are super-awesome. But
nothing is more awkward that the part where you have to invite a third-wheeler
into your bedroom for some little bit of triple kinkiness? Not to mention that
part where you have to convince your partner that there’s nothing wrong with
inviting some outside fun.
It takes a lot of
trust and sacrifice on your part to lock in a threesome. For what we know, your
partner may be in for a threesome, but it could be different one than the one
you had envisioned.
Of course your
girlfriend will be more receptive to the idea of you inviting some other dude
over to help you drive her to pound town; but out of jealous probably, find it
hard to entertain the idea of you bringing in some other woman to spice things
up in your bedroom.
So what’s the best way to get two open minded people to agree to have a threesome with you?
Understand the risk
their own share of risks. If you’re committed to your partner, you have to come
to term with the fact that inviting another person to your bedroom could put
your relationship in a jeopardy. This is particularly the case if the third sex
partner is a friend you’ll still be meeting in future.
Also, there’s the
issue of putting your friendship on the line. But if threesome is a fetish
you’ve been harboring, then don’t backpedal from it. When you look at it,
nothing good comes without a risk. So if you’re a man or woman worth your salt,
regardless of what consequences awaits you, follow this simple, step by step
guide to prep your partner and invite someone over for a threesome.
Step 1: Talk it Out with Your Partner
The biggest hurdle
to a threesome is NOT inviting someone to your bed, but getting your partner to
agree to the idea of sharing you out with someone else.
If you’re a guy,
it shouldn’t come as a surprise when your girl freaks out on the idea. She may
even accuse you of plotting to cheat on her or using that as a subterfuge to
jilt her for someone else.
crucial that you prepare yourself for the worst. You can allay her fear by
walking her slowly over her idea. Introduce a topic that flows along the line
of “what one sexual fantasy that you wouldn’t want to die before trying out.”
It’s then that you introduce the idea of a threesome and hang in a little
longer to weigh in on sentiments about it while letting her know how serious
you’re about the idea.
If you’re a woman,
then most likely your guy will be down with the idea before you even bring it
Step 2: Don’t be Insecure or Jealousy
The next biggest
challenge is you. You have to come to term with the idea that the partner you
invite over may pleasure your partner to a level you’ve never reached before.
And if it happens,
you should be happy that your partner is really enjoying it rather than getting
worked up over it for nothing.
Step 3: Focus on Making it Fun for Your Partner
meant to be fun. So it’s important that you forget about the complexities of
having one and instead focus on the fun bit of it.
Don’t be too
inquisitive, nor let your guilty conscience push you into asking irrelevant
questions about fidelity. If your partner agreed to it then it’s to be reasoned
that they’re okay with it.
Also, don’t try
shaming your partner when you see them trying things they don’t normally do
while with you. If they’re enjoying, be a vessel to their enjoyment instead of
coming off as a buzz kill.
Step 4: Flow with the Tide
Routine is boring and so is routine sex. Having sex the same way, every day in the same place, with the same partner can make things appear like they’re NOT fun. You may begin to resent the sex, and one reason you’re inviting an outsider into your bed is because you want to restore a dead bedroom.
So be ready to
explore. Be ready to push things to a little further. Be ready to get silly and
try out new things, whether it’s simple or super-complex.
You can choose to be a little BDSM or let’s just say be ready to flow with whatever is suggested or laid out on the table without asking unnecessary questions or playing rigid.
Step 5: Focus on Your Attention
We get it, you
want toe get satisfied or fulfill one of your greatest sexual fantasies. But
this is one area where you’d want to be totally selfless. This is one area
where you need to prove that you really care about your partner and that you’re
really NOT into it for your own selfish gains but because you’re interested in
restoring the sexual flame in your bedroom. Meaning all your attention should
be on making it all fun for your partner.
required that you sit down and watch your partner enjoy themselves, do it
without raising unnecessary issues. Focus on that part when you loved your
partner in the first place and you’ll realize that love means caring. It means
that you want what’s best for your partner, and that all you care about in this
world is for them to be happy and that that’s one of the moments to prove it.
There’re horrible people in this world. And horrible things happen to you when you cross paths with them. The NOT-so-lucky victim of such an incidence is a 29 year old Norwegian master student who got scammed by a new-found love she had known from Tinder for about a month.
Originally published on Abcnews, her story paints the gory details of how dangerous the murky world of online dating can be particularly to gullible women who want to lock in illegible bachelors for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.
Here goes the backstory:
met a man she thought was her supposedly soulmate on Tinder. The man’s name was
Simon Leviev. But in a horrid turn of events, turns out the man’s real name was
Simon Hyuat, who was on Tinder masquerading as the son to a renowned Israeli
It didn’t take
long after matching up on Tinder before the two hit off. After all, the guy was
wealthy, good-looking and had all the hallmarks of an eligible bachelor. She
was immediately besotted and that marked the beginning of what was supposed to
be one of the greatest romantic stories — think prince Harry and Megan.
On Tinder and
Instagram, the man used the moniker “the prince of diamond.” This cleared any
doubt Cecilie had regarding the man’s wealth status.
They’d then start
to plan for their first date, and Leviev was the man for it. Instead of playing
it lowkey and take Cecilie to an ordinary dinner date, he’d charter a private
jet that would fly them from London all the way to Bulgaria. Of course, the
chemistry was all there, and there was some real connection that marked the
beginning of a great romantic life ahead.
Leviev had to divulge a little about his life and what it is the he does for a
living. So apart from being a scion to a renowned tycoon, Leviev had managed to
curve a life for himself by being one of the most established diamond dealers
in Israel. This meant he was a busy man who always has a tight schedule on his
The date ended,
and the two parted ways to continue their long distance relationship as they
figure out the next step. During that time, they’d constantly video-chat and
send each other love notes while talking about the future.
schedule never afforded him the time to travel to London to go and meet the
love of his life. But being the gentleman he is, he would charter a private jet
to go pick her from wherever she was to come meet her whenever he had the spare
time to hang out.
The horrid turn of Events
This was a dream come true for Cecile, who couldn’t resist falling for this lovely, god-sent man really hard. She’d fantasize about him, their marriage and the great future that awaited her after their honeymoon should he decide to surprise her with a marriage proposal in the near future. There was nothing to lose. Even if their marriage ended in divorce, she would still end up with half of his wealth — a shoo-in millionaire in waiting. Not to mention the alimony and all the perks that comes with being associated with the son of a tycoon.
And you’re right,
the only notable hurdle that lay ahead was the man wising up to the likelihood
of their relationship ending up in a divorce, and most likely coercing her to
sign a prenup.
Turns out that the
horrid shock that stared at her was far more worse than what she had at some
point painted in her mind.
The man was nowhere close to the millionaire he claimed to be, but an experienced con artist, with a criminal record on his belt. He was the real master of catfishing, and Cecilie was nothing more than his latest victim.
time, Leviev would proceed to the final stage of his plan. It was time to reap
off, having pumped in a lot of effort trying to get his victim ready.
Simple, he asked
Cecile to open for him a line of credit that he could use to book flight
tickets and conduct businesses without drawing unnecessary attention to
himself. A request Cecile didn’t have second thoughts complying with.
Leviev would go on
to explain that he needed the line of credit only for his protection, not the
money. Her name was to act as a cover and nothing else.
The request didn’t
make much sense to her but she didn’t see any reason NOT to flow with it.
promised to pay back every single penny of her money he spent. A promise he
would never live to honor.
By the end of their little affair, and before Cecile learned that she was dealing with a con artist, Leviev had already scammed her an upward of $200, 000. Any attempt to reach her money were in vain, as Leviev had swiftly moved on to target another victim.
As recounted by
her, this incidence nearly pushed her to committed suicide as she couldn’t
imagine herself falling victim to such a scam. She had to be rushed to the
hospital, where she was admitted in a psychiatric ward.
Hyuat, when contacted would then turn the table on Cecile by painting her as gold digger who was only with him for his wealth and nothing else. According to him, things went south before he had managed to repay her little loan, but having spent a hefty amount of money on her, buying her expensive gifts and taking her on vacations and costly dinners, then he doesn’t see any reason the lass would get all sour for it.
Nowadays, we are living in a world where having a hookup with someone, more so meeting somewhere specifically about having sex, is completely normal. Sometimes ago this was considered socially unacceptable. But here we are and everybody seems to be doing it. At this time, you already have someone to engage in sex. All the preparations are ready though in the past you haven’t had many causal sex happenings.
You can attest
that you really want the date to go as smooth as possible. In this case, you
will need to go through a checklist of crucial supplies. If you are prepared,
you will focus on your partner personal needs. This will help you relax while
you prepare for all the good stuff and make a backup plan in case something
goes wrong. By the time you are done with the following tips, you will be a
master of all dates from here on.
Here are some of
the things you can do to adequately prepare yourself for awesome hookup dates.
1. Eat a Healthy Breakfast
Arguably, this is
the most important meal of the day more so when you are planning to have a
super-hot date that night. You should avoid having food hours before hooking
up. Make sure you have a healthy breakfast. In that case, eat lots of fresh
fruits for breakfast. Pasta, bread and rice should be avoided completely. While
carbs will make you bloat spicy foods will make you uncomfortable during your
2. Wear a comfortable outfit
Dress to impress
not to express. It is with no doubt you want to be inviting and yet seductive.
No one wants to appear trashy and cheap on a hookup. Therefore to avoid
embarrassment to your partner, wear clothes that fit you properly. However, you
need to avoid extremely baggy and tight outfits. Heels will always make your
legs beautiful. On the other hand, if you are quite uncomfortable with heels,
avoid them like hell. It is better to have a feminine pair of flats than
stumbling upon with shoes you can’t walk in.
3. Wear your hottest
For sure, if it is going to be a hot date, you may help yourself feel super-hot by putting some sexy lingerie set. Actually, you know what I am talking about. You can hide it at the back of the drawer since you have been waiting for this great day to come. Now, it is the right time to get it out and put it on. Even if you don’t have plans to bring this man to your place, wearing this set will make you feel wonderful.
4. Get your bedroom ready
Of course, you
don’t need a bedroom to have good sex. You can have it in the kitchen or even
in a living room. But in most cases, you will end up in your bedroom. Therefore
you need your bedroom to be clean. How do you do this? Set up some candles and
find some matches to use later. As you change your bed sheets, empty the trash
bin beside your bed. For some tantalizing fun, you can also have some massage
oil and place it just next to your bed. Get a lube. Everything will be funnier
5. Clean, shave and
After tiding your
room, now it is time to focus on your body. Take a warm, thorough shower. Your
skin needs to stumble-free. For that reason, wash your hair and give yourself a
clean shave. When you are done, dab the water off your skin and moisturize.
Most people prefer using coconut oil after every shower. But when your skin is
severely dry, you can use both shea butter and coconut oil. Additionally, you
are not restricted to use any favorite skin lotion, but remember to keep it
unscented if you had planned on wearing perfume.
6. Smell good
This is the time
to apply your favorite perfume. Choose that scent that truly reflects the kind
of night you want to have. Don’t let your partner walk in a tidy house with a
stingy owner. You need little common sense to make sure that everything appeal
on the visitor’s eye. Apply your best perfume onto your skin. Don’t apply to
choke him, but to intrigue him.
If you have never
dated a shemale before, then you are probably reading this article because you
want to equip yourself with more information. It is paramount what a shemale is
as that is what will enable you to determine whether or not you will date them.
The difference between real women and shemale is petite contrary to what many people think. Dating a shemale is the same as dating any women. The difference is that society has a different perspective when it comes to dating a shemale. This, therefore, means that you must careful when approaching them because they might be defensive. Not being well informed can result in you not succeeding in your effort to date a shemale.
Before you set
your mind that you want to date a shemale, there are a number of things that
you are supposed to consider. Do not rush out to ask them if they can date you.
This is being careless. Consider the following points before dating a shemale.
The reasons why
you wanted to date them is enough to explain why they are unique. They enjoy
the nature of being feminine, and in addition to that, they also enjoy the
attention that men give to them. What this simply means is that if you treat
them right, they will feel good about themselves. This is a good thing for both
you and your potential partner. So if you are looking for real affection, then
be sure to remember this.
The Type of
Relationship You Want
Before you set off for the journey of dating a shemale, it is important that you define the kind of relationship that you want. Are you looking for a short time or long time relationship? If you are dating for sex and curiosity purposes, then you do not have to invest your feelings in the relationship because this will hurt one of you in the long run. Having a better understanding of your needs will help you to find the right person.
Shemales are Never
The problem with many people is that they tend to believe that all shemale are the same. If you go with that mentality, then you can be sure that you will have a hard time meeting the right person. Remember that no one is the same as another person. Approach a shemale knowing that she is different from those that you have met before and for you to win her, you will need to start understanding them. You do not want to lose your only chance of getting a partner simply because you want to work on the assumptions of other people.
Finally, once you have understood the kind of relationship that you are looking for and that not all shemales are the same, the next thing is to know your preferences. What is the physical appearance that is appealing to you? Physical appearance matters when it comes to sex matters. This, however, does not mean that other things such as the worth of the person do not matter.
People from all
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falling in love is one of the most exciting things that you will ever
experience in life. When you begin discussing matters related to love, it’s
normal for the word “Dating” to surface. An experienced relationship expert
will be more than happy to tell you that love and dating are synonymous.
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If you are shy,
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dating is what you may be looking for, but let’s face it – it’s hard to come
across a reliable shemale dating site. Even if you do, one false move and you
might be somewhere you didn’t want to be in the first place.
When it is your
first date, most do not know how to go about it. The trick is to rediscover
your inner selves and not having to worry about the repercussions. And when it
comes to the first shemale date, you need to know what to do – something we
will help you with.
The question often
is, how can you meet reliable and trustworthy people? Most online video
chatting sites fumble with ensuring you have the right person on the other end,
so if you do find someone you know is genuine and whom you would like, you
would want to make it click.
Whether you are a
man or a woman, finding a shemale to date can be tricky. Even if you find one,
it can be confused how to treat them. It is like walking on thin ice. One wrong
move and all your efforts mean not. Treat them like you would treat a woman and
with respect. Don’t worry, though. To put it short – if you know how to treat
other men and women, you will know how to treat shemales too. It’s love and
respect that anyone wants, after all.
Let’s take a look
at four things you should consider while being in an easy-going relationship
with a shemale:
1. Spoil them with
feeling special and getting spoilt with gifts. You don’t have to go
over-the-top and purchase expensive gifts. It might sound cliche but nothing
works better than flowers. Even though your primary reason for entering the
relationship is sexual needs or curiosity, taking some extra efforts to portray
2. Don’t treat
Treat your shemale
date like you would treat any other woman. Don’t express curiosity or disgust
over their appearance if you want them to call you the next day. Treating them
a little extra better won’t hurt either because deserves a little extra love.
their feelings and emotions
They would have
obviously been through a lot in the past. Showing respect and not judging their
emotions is what a gentleman would do. Stay away from issues regarding
transgenders and focus on who they are as a person. Ask about their favorite
hobbies, places to eat, colors, clothing brands, and get to know them well.
4. Go on romantic
Women love to go on dinner dates and so do shemales. They are a little different than others but that doesn’t mean they deserve anything less. Make sure both of you agree on the restaurant or club so that no one feels forced. Order the fanciest wine and drink to your relationship.
Keep as simple as
you can because any complicated is not fun.