Ways to Initiate a Threesome into a Long Term Relationship

More means merrier. Who would argue against it — threesomes are super-awesome. But nothing is more awkward that the part where you have to invite a third-wheeler into your bedroom for some little bit of triple kinkiness? Not to mention that part where you have to convince your partner that there’s nothing wrong with inviting some outside fun.

It takes a lot of trust and sacrifice on your part to lock in a threesome. For what we know, your partner may be in for a threesome, but it could be different one than the one you had envisioned.

Of course your girlfriend will be more receptive to the idea of you inviting some other dude over to help you drive her to pound town; but out of jealous probably, find it hard to entertain the idea of you bringing in some other woman to spice things up in your bedroom.

So what’s the best way to get two open minded people to agree to have a threesome with you?

Understand the risk

Threesomes have their own share of risks. If you’re committed to your partner, you have to come to term with the fact that inviting another person to your bedroom could put your relationship in a jeopardy. This is particularly the case if the third sex partner is a friend you’ll still be meeting in future.

Also, there’s the issue of putting your friendship on the line. But if threesome is a fetish you’ve been harboring, then don’t backpedal from it. When you look at it, nothing good comes without a risk. So if you’re a man or woman worth your salt, regardless of what consequences awaits you, follow this simple, step by step guide to prep your partner and invite someone over for a threesome.

Step 1: Talk it Out with Your Partner

The biggest hurdle to a threesome is NOT inviting someone to your bed, but getting your partner to agree to the idea of sharing you out with someone else.

If you’re a guy, it shouldn’t come as a surprise when your girl freaks out on the idea. She may even accuse you of plotting to cheat on her or using that as a subterfuge to jilt her for someone else.

It’s therefore crucial that you prepare yourself for the worst. You can allay her fear by walking her slowly over her idea. Introduce a topic that flows along the line of “what one sexual fantasy that you wouldn’t want to die before trying out.” It’s then that you introduce the idea of a threesome and hang in a little longer to weigh in on sentiments about it while letting her know how serious you’re about the idea.

If you’re a woman, then most likely your guy will be down with the idea before you even bring it up.

Step 2: Don’t be Insecure or Jealousy

The next biggest challenge is you. You have to come to term with the idea that the partner you invite over may pleasure your partner to a level you’ve never reached before.

And if it happens, you should be happy that your partner is really enjoying it rather than getting worked up over it for nothing.

Step 3: Focus on Making it Fun for Your Partner

Threesomes are meant to be fun. So it’s important that you forget about the complexities of having one and instead focus on the fun bit of it.

Don’t be too inquisitive, nor let your guilty conscience push you into asking irrelevant questions about fidelity. If your partner agreed to it then it’s to be reasoned that they’re okay with it.

Also, don’t try shaming your partner when you see them trying things they don’t normally do while with you. If they’re enjoying, be a vessel to their enjoyment instead of coming off as a buzz kill.

Step 4: Flow with the Tide

Routine is boring and so is routine sex. Having sex the same way, every day in the same place, with the same partner can make things appear like they’re NOT fun. You may begin to resent the sex, and one reason you’re inviting an outsider into your bed is because you want to restore a dead bedroom.

So be ready to explore. Be ready to push things to a little further. Be ready to get silly and try out new things, whether it’s simple or super-complex.

You can choose to be a little BDSM or let’s just say be ready to flow with whatever is suggested or laid out on the table without asking unnecessary questions or playing rigid.

Step 5: Focus on Your Attention

We get it, you want toe get satisfied or fulfill one of your greatest sexual fantasies. But this is one area where you’d want to be totally selfless. This is one area where you need to prove that you really care about your partner and that you’re really NOT into it for your own selfish gains but because you’re interested in restoring the sexual flame in your bedroom. Meaning all your attention should be on making it all fun for your partner.

Where it’s required that you sit down and watch your partner enjoy themselves, do it without raising unnecessary issues. Focus on that part when you loved your partner in the first place and you’ll realize that love means caring. It means that you want what’s best for your partner, and that all you care about in this world is for them to be happy and that that’s one of the moments to prove it.

Tinder Date Goes Sour after a Catfishing Prince Charming Scams his date out of a Good $200, 000

There’re horrible people in this world. And horrible things happen to you when you cross paths with them. The NOT-so-lucky victim of such an incidence is a 29 year old Norwegian master student who got scammed by a new-found love she had known from Tinder for about a month.

Originally published on Abcnews, her story paints the gory details of how dangerous the murky world of online dating can be particularly to gullible women who want to lock in illegible bachelors for a serious relationship that could lead to marriage.

Here goes the backstory:

Cecilie Fjellhoy met a man she thought was her supposedly soulmate on Tinder. The man’s name was Simon Leviev. But in a horrid turn of events, turns out the man’s real name was Simon Hyuat, who was on Tinder masquerading as the son to a renowned Israeli millionaire.

It didn’t take long after matching up on Tinder before the two hit off. After all, the guy was wealthy, good-looking and had all the hallmarks of an eligible bachelor. She was immediately besotted and that marked the beginning of what was supposed to be one of the greatest romantic stories — think prince Harry and Megan.

On Tinder and Instagram, the man used the moniker “the prince of diamond.” This cleared any doubt Cecilie had regarding the man’s wealth status.

They’d then start to plan for their first date, and Leviev was the man for it. Instead of playing it lowkey and take Cecilie to an ordinary dinner date, he’d charter a private jet that would fly them from London all the way to Bulgaria. Of course, the chemistry was all there, and there was some real connection that marked the beginning of a great romantic life ahead.

As expected, Leviev had to divulge a little about his life and what it is the he does for a living. So apart from being a scion to a renowned tycoon, Leviev had managed to curve a life for himself by being one of the most established diamond dealers in Israel. This meant he was a busy man who always has a tight schedule on his hands.

The date ended, and the two parted ways to continue their long distance relationship as they figure out the next step. During that time, they’d constantly video-chat and send each other love notes while talking about the future.

Leviev’s busy schedule never afforded him the time to travel to London to go and meet the love of his life. But being the gentleman he is, he would charter a private jet to go pick her from wherever she was to come meet her whenever he had the spare time to hang out.

The horrid turn of Events

This was a dream come true for Cecile, who couldn’t resist falling for this lovely, god-sent man really hard. She’d fantasize about him, their marriage and the great future that awaited her after their honeymoon should he decide to surprise her with a marriage proposal in the near future. There was nothing to lose. Even if their marriage ended in divorce, she would still end up with half of his wealth — a shoo-in millionaire in waiting. Not to mention the alimony and all the perks that comes with being associated with the son of a tycoon.

And you’re right, the only notable hurdle that lay ahead was the man wising up to the likelihood of their relationship ending up in a divorce, and most likely coercing her to sign a prenup.

Turns out that the horrid shock that stared at her was far more worse than what she had at some point painted in her mind.

The man was nowhere close to the millionaire he claimed to be, but an experienced con artist, with a criminal record on his belt. He was the real master of catfishing, and Cecilie was nothing more than his latest victim.

Without wasting time, Leviev would proceed to the final stage of his plan. It was time to reap off, having pumped in a lot of effort trying to get his victim ready.

Simple, he asked Cecile to open for him a line of credit that he could use to book flight tickets and conduct businesses without drawing unnecessary attention to himself. A request Cecile didn’t have second thoughts complying with.

Leviev would go on to explain that he needed the line of credit only for his protection, not the money. Her name was to act as a cover and nothing else.

The request didn’t make much sense to her but she didn’t see any reason NOT to flow with it.

Leviev then promised to pay back every single penny of her money he spent. A promise he would never live to honor.

By the end of their little affair, and before Cecile learned that she was dealing with a con artist, Leviev had already scammed her an upward of $200, 000. Any attempt to reach her money were in vain, as Leviev had swiftly moved on to target another victim.

As recounted by her, this incidence nearly pushed her to committed suicide as she couldn’t imagine herself falling victim to such a scam. She had to be rushed to the hospital, where she was admitted in a psychiatric ward.

Hyuat, when contacted would then turn the table on Cecile by painting her as gold digger who was only with him for his wealth and nothing else. According to him, things went south before he had managed to repay her little loan, but having spent a hefty amount of money on her, buying her expensive gifts and taking her on vacations and costly dinners, then he doesn’t see any reason the lass would get all sour for it.

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